TY - BOOK AU - Nesbit Sbanotto,Elisabeth A. AU - Davediuk Gingrich,Heather AU - Gingrich,Fred C. TI - Skills for effective counseling: a faith-based integration T2 - Christian Association for Psychological Studies (CAPS) SN - 9780830828609 AV - BR115.C69 N47 2016 U1 - 253.5 23 PY - 2016/// CY - Downers Grove, Illinois PB - IVP Academic, an imprint of, InterVarsity Press KW - Counseling KW - Religious aspects KW - Christianity KW - Communication KW - Pastoral counseling N1 - Includes bibliographical references (pages 451-466) and indexes; Introduction -- 1. The microskills approach : the skill of learning new skills ; identifying targeted skill areas -- 2. The person of the counselor : self-as-instrument -- TARGET 1: ESTABLISHING RELATIONSHIP AND EXPLORING -- 3. What do you notice? : perceiving -- 4. Your presence in the room : attending -- 5. Identifying the pieces of the story : reflecting content -- 6. Validating emotion : reflecting feeling -- 7. Connecting empathically : empathic reflection -- TARGETS 2 AND 3: DEEPENING AND GROWING -- 8. Zeroing in : clarifying -- 9. Connecting deeply : intuitive empathy -- 10. Expanding therapeutic options : using metaphors -- 11. Reflecting apparent discrepancies : confronting -- 12. Using the here and now : authenticity, self-disclosure and immediacy -- 13. Strategies for growth : implementing change -- 14. Expanding the counseling system : thinking systemically and using the relational system -- 15. Appreciating the sacred : attuning to the Holy Spirit and spiritual themes -- TARGET 4: CONSOLIDATING AND ENDING -- 16. Endings and new beginnings : consolidating and ending -- Appendix A: Answers to chapter exercises -- Appendix B: Additional learning activities -- Appendix C: Small group role-play exercises and transcript analysis assignment -- Appendix D: The relationship between psychology and religion N2 - Anyone in a helping profession including professional counselors, spiritual directors, pastoral counselors, chaplains and others needs to develop effective communication skills. But learning these skills is like learning a new language: it takes time and practice to communicate effectively, and lack of practice can lead to the loss of one's ability to use this new language. Suitable for both beginning students and seasoned practitioners, Skills for Effective Counseling provides a biblically integrated approach to foundational counseling skills that trains the reader to use specific microskills. These skills include perceiving, attending, validating emotion and empathic connection. - from back of book ER -